Gown & Product info
Q: How do I measure myself?
Q: Do you provide alteration services?
A: BHLDN does not offer alterations services. We recommend working with a seasoned tailor who has a background in bridal wear.
Q: Do you offer specific measurements for each item?
A: We provide specific measurements for wedding gowns; look for these on gown product pages. You may also reference our general fit guide.
Q: Which designers do you carry?
A: See our list of designers here.
Q: How often do new products/gowns activate?
A: We receive new product at least once a month. Our largest gown collections typically arrive in August and January. For first word of new product, sign up for BHLDN emails.
Q: What is Dye to Order?
A: Dye to Order is a special collection from Ghost London. Created upon order just for you, each garment goes through a unique process of washing and dyeing.
Q: How long does it take to receive a Dye to Order item?
A: Please allow six to eight weeks to receive your custom garment.
Q: This Watters gown is made to order. What does that mean?
A: Select Watters gowns are carefully crafted upon order. Please note, these gowns ship from Watters, not BHLDN.
Q: How long does it take to receive a made to order Watters gown?
A: Timing varies by gown, but please allow up to 15 weeks.
Q: What are Bespoke Accessories?
A: This is our special collection of artisan-made accessories, handcrafted upon order just for you.
Shop current new arrivals here.
Payment, delivery & returns
Q: How do I make a return or exchange?
- To return or exchange your gown, a UPS pre-paid Label is included in your shipment. Please note, gowns cannot be returned in stores.
- To return or exchange all other apparel, accessories, and décor, a USPS pre-paid SmartLabel is included in your shipment. You may also return your items to a BHLDN store or a BHLDN shop within select Anthropologie stores (Please note: the NYC Midtown Showroom cannot accept returns).
- Most returns and exchanges will be processed in approximately 2-3 weeks, depending on your method of return. Please note additional processing delays may occur in some instances.
Q: What is the BHLDN return policy?
- Merchandise must be returned within 30 days.
- Bridal gowns cannot be returned in stores.
- Other BHLDN merchandise may be returned in a BHLDN store or a BHLDN shop within select Anthropologie stores (Please note: the NYC Midtown Showroom cannot accept returns).
- Merchandise must not be worn, altered, or washed, and must be free of stains, pet hair, floor debris, and pin marks.
- Merchandise must have all tags attached and be in its original packaging.
- Gowns not returned in original condition may be refused or subject to a $75 restocking fee.
- Final sale items may not be returned.
Q: Do you allow price adjustments?
A: If you have purchased items that are now on sale, we will gladly offer you a one-time price adjustment if you contact us within 14 days of the original date of shipment or in-store purchase. For online or phone orders, please call 1-888-942-4536 from 7 a.m. - midnight EST, seven days a week, or email us at email@example.com. For store purchases, please contact or stop by your local store.
Please note we do not offer price adjustments on shipping charges.
Q: Do I pay for my gown at the time of ordering? Or do you accept partial payment?
A: You must pay the entire cost of in-stock gowns at the time you place your order. You will see an authorization charge at the time you place your order. Authorization charges will be dropped, and your credit card will be charged the full amount as soon as your gown has shipped.
Q: How quickly do your gowns arrive once I've placed my order?
A: If your size is in stock, it will take approximately 5-7 business days for your gown to arrive. If your size is not in stock, you can expect it to ship within 5-7 business days of the estimated ship date that you see noted when you click on your size. For last-minute shoppers or elopers, we also offer expedited shipping.
Q: What are shipping prices and what is your delivery timeframe?
Q: How will the gown be shipped? Is there a signature required upon receipt?
A: Your gown will be shipped via UPS. We do not require a signature upon receipt of the package. You will receive tracking information when your item is shipped.
Q: Where are BHLDN stores located?
Q: How do I schedule an appointment?
Q: Do I need an appointment for wedding gowns? What about bridesmaid dresses?
A: Yes, you need an appointment to try on wedding gowns. We also encourage you to make an appointment for bridesmaid shopping to ensure optimum service. We recommend calling the store ahead of time if you are shopping for a bridal party of more than five people as we will need to make extra accommodations for your appointment.
Q: What can I expect from an appointment?
A: Once you schedule an in-store appointment, you will be assigned a stylist who will guide you through the gown selection process. At your appointment, you'll receive one-on-one attention for 45 minutes in our private salon area. Your stylist will provide sizing advice, reserve requested samples (when available), and help accessorize your wedding day look.
Q: How far in advance should I book my gown appointment?
A: We recommend that you book your appointment at least 6 months prior to your event date. Our gown styles have limited availability, so if you have found a style that you love, we recommend booking an appointment at your earliest convenience. While the majority of our gowns are available for immediate delivery, planning ahead gives you plenty of time for alterations.
Q: What if I need to cancel my appointment?
A: We have a 24-hour cancellation policy. You will receive a reminder email 48 hours before your appointment. You can reply to the email to confirm or cancel, or you may call the store directly. If we don't hear from you by 8 p.m. the day before your appointment, we will open it up to another bride. Please note most stores have a long wait list of brides hoping for an appointment. We appreciate the courtesy of confirming or cancelling as soon as possible.
Q: What are my options if appointments are fully booked and I want to try on wedding gowns?
A: We recommend calling our stores to be added to a wait list. The store teams will call customers on the wait list as soon as an appointment slot opens.
Q: What should I bring with me to my appointment?
A: We suggest that you bring your own nude or white undergarments. This may include a strapless bra, underwear, and/or shapewear, and shoes at the desired height. You may also want to bring an elastic hairband if you plan to wear your hair up.
Q: What size are your sample gowns?
A: We typically have samples in sizes 4 and 12, but it varies by style. During your appointment, your stylist will assist you with your measurements and provide sizing advice. Most BHLDN wedding gowns are comparative to ready-to-wear sizing.
Q: May we bring a bottle of wine or champagne to celebrate?
A: To avoid spills and maintain the integrity of the product, we ask that you not bring in outside beverages. However, we are happy to provide refreshments upon request!
Q: I don't live near a BHLDN. How can I obtain expert advice?
A: Our styling team offers phone and email consultations! For more infomation click here.
Q: How do I know which size to order?
A: If you are unable to meet with our stylists for an appointment at one of our locations, we recommend getting measured by a professional tailor and using our reference guides to best determine your size. Click here for our general size guide. We also provide specific measurements for wedding gowns; look for these on gown product pages.